{"id":1945,"date":"2023-05-02T09:44:59","date_gmt":"2023-05-02T07:44:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.oriconet.com\/?p=1945"},"modified":"2023-05-02T11:05:35","modified_gmt":"2023-05-02T09:05:35","slug":"plezier-maken-loont-meer-dan-menigeen-beseft","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/plezier-maken-loont-meer-dan-menigeen-beseft\/","title":{"rendered":"Having fun pays off more than many people realize!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It doesn't matter what you've experienced so far.<br>It doesn't matter what you've believed or distrusted so far.<br>It were all inevitable and\/or necessary experiences to make us aware of our own impact related to those events and\/or experiences.<br>Everything proceeds at any time perfectly according  the ko(s)misch plan, even when we temporarily experience it very differently. 'Life' is a win-win experiment in which the seemingly destructive also has a constructive function. <br>The choice is ours to activate our willigness to discover that win-win in everything and everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every moment is an appropriate moment to qualify yourself for the most amazing, blissful win-win experiences a human being can imagine.<br>As soon as we decide to make a habit of the attitude:<br> 'pleasure before work' instead of 'work first and then pleasure' <br>we activate a completely different experience field and\/or environment.<br>Having fun is, among other things, mind-expanding whereby we  use of our brain capacities, as well our full talents more optimal. This makes everything, yes really everything, proceeding smoother and more efficient.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Foto-Gerda-Indicator-FB-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1901\" width=\"295\" height=\"393\" srcset=\"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Foto-Gerda-Indicator-FB-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Foto-Gerda-Indicator-FB-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Foto-Gerda-Indicator-FB-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Foto-Gerda-Indicator-FB-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Foto-Gerda-Indicator-FB-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Foto-Gerda-Indicator-FB-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 295px) 100vw, 295px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>In the year 2020, when I returned to my home country of Belgium after 16 years of foreign experience as a Love-Laugh-Lifestyle promoter on the paradise island of Fuerteventura, my win-win vision was suddenly heavily in question. Apart from the usual Belgian frenzy, the lockdown impact came on top of it. I had to temporarily shelve my plans to give workshops and interactive lectures because of the ban on physical events. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fortunately, I am a woman of 12 stiles and 13 luck which, to my own surprise, led me to be considered for a commercial job with a legal publishing company. Of course, this brought with it the necessary stress-related adjustment symptoms.<br>As a result, I was temporarily well outside my comfort zone and therefore temporarily out of my beloved \"fun before work\" mode. <br>Because.....<br>In this workplace, the \"work first and then have fun\" rule was applied. <br>Or specifically, \"sell first and then have fun\". <br>Fortunately, we were soon required by the government to work from home which allowed me to test out my beloved win-win formula in my own way. And it paid off ... it paid off more and more as I was able to convince my supervisor through my results that my, for them atypical, approach did work. I became anno 2021, as the company's pre-digital grandmother, top-seller of digital tools where in mid-2020 I had only 0.0 knowledge on the subject. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>So what were my simple yet effective tactics?<\/strong><br>Prior to each sales call, I opened the client or potential client's data sheet. When I felt resistance and felt my sense of joy (and consequently my self-confidence) drop, I postponed the conversation. Then I either did some online research, or went to a previously successful interaction in my mind, or in extreme need I contacted my coach for an extra tip or encouragement. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And yes, sometimes I would just go do something totally different that had nothing to do with my job to lower the obstructive tension level. As a result, I became more joyful, self-confident and calm. It only increased my courage and eagerness to achieve the desired results. And the results didn't lie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>It will sound crazy to some people but very often I knew in advance whether I would make the sale or not. The more fun I had \"being allowed to be part\" of the most wacky team I ever worked with, the smoother my conversations went and the more often I sold.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Have I handled everything perfectly according to company rules? No! <br>Have I ignored my responsibility by putting fun before work? Absolutely not! <br>Because while having fun, it is and always will be my intention to take full responsibility and\/or accountability according to the hoped-for results.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><\/p>\n<cite><strong>Having fun = taking 100% responsibility!<\/strong><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Why?<\/strong><br>Well, while having fun we activate our full brain potential, which allows us to see and use opportunities faster. At the same time, we activate extra substances that increase our self-confidence, sense of responsibility, loyalty, pain&amp;emotion regulation capacities, etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Having fun allows us to handle much more in a shorter period of time than if we start a task or assignment seriously, and seemingly more likely to succeed. The win-win sequence of \"fun-making=record-benefits-enforcing\" really never stops.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/AfscheidLarcier-1024x623.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1954\" width=\"395\" height=\"240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/AfscheidLarcier-1024x623.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/AfscheidLarcier-300x182.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/AfscheidLarcier-768x467.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/AfscheidLarcier-1536x934.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/AfscheidLarcier-18x12.jpeg 18w, https:\/\/oriconet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/AfscheidLarcier.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 395px) 100vw, 395px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>So in mid-2022, I decided, intensely THANKFUL, to trade the security of a job in legal publishing for the challenge of self-employment.<br><strong>My primal call, to actively contribute to a joyously peaceful world<\/strong>, became so strong that even this \"crazy-best-team-ever\" could not keep me in the house. Still Love you guys!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Would you also like to discover how to discover, activate and concretely use your full potential?<br>Then come to the weekly fun BAGAL win-win workout: see <a href=\"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/agenda-oriconet\/\">Agenda<\/a><br>Or send an email for a course tailored to your\/your needs via the contact page: <a href=\"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/contact\/\">https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/contact\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fun AND Success Guaranteed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For now and later roguish greetings from me<br><br>Gerda Maria Hendrickx<br><em>Love-Laugh-Lifestyle promotor<\/em><br><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Het maakt niet uit wat je tot nu toe ervaren hebt.Het maakt niet uit wat je tot nu toe geloofd of gewantrouwd hebt.Het waren allemaal onvermijdelijke en\/of noodzakelijke ervaringen om ons bewust te maken van onze eigen impact in deze gebeurtenissen en\/of ervaringen.Alles verloopt op \u00e9lk moment perfect volgens ko(s)misch plan, ja ook wanneer wij [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1947,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1945","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nieuwsbrief"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1945","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1945"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1945\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1981,"href":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1945\/revisions\/1981"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1947"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1945"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1945"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oriconet.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1945"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}